The purpose of estate planning is to distribute your assets to heirs in a formal, legal process. If you do not have any heirs to speak of, you might not feel the need to do this. However, your assets will go somewhere, so you may want to have control over that before the state steps in to decide for you.

Without a formal will, the general rule for inheritance distribution starts with a surviving spouse and children (who often share the estate), followed by grandchildren, parents, siblings, nephews and nieces, grandparents, then other extended relatives such as aunts, uncles and cousins. The exact order varies by state. Note that ex-spouses, and in most states stepchildren, receive nothing under standard state inheritance laws; they must be specified in a will or trust document, or named as an account beneficiary, to receive any consideration.

This means that, without a will or close family heir, your assets could go to an estranged sibling or even a cousin you’ve never met. If you have absolutely no family left when you pass on, the proceeds generally go to the state through a process called escheat (this includes funds from physical assets that are auctioned off).

Start with Living Matters

Before you start allocating where your assets go after your death, first complete paperwork assigning people to manage your assets if you ever become incapacitated while still alive. The key documents include:

• Durable Power of Attorney (DPOA) – this document names an agent, such as a trusted friend, attorney, or bank trust department, to take over managing your financial and legal affairs if you are deemed unable.
• Health Care Directive – authorizes someone to make medical decisions on your behalf when you are unable.
• Living Will – details what life-saving procedures and treatments you would and would not like to receive in order to keep you alive. Separately, a DNR (do not resuscitate) order, signed by your physician, directs medical staff not to perform CPR if your heart or breathing stops.

Choose Your Estate Manager

Your will should assign an executor to manage your estate once you pass away. Again, this can be a friend or a custodian (e.g., bank, attorney, financial advisor). This person is responsible for initiating probate court proceedings and distributing assets as dictated by your will. Responsibilities may include notifying your landlord/lender(s), utility providers, banks, credit card companies, investments, and insurance companies of your passing, as well as managing the sale of any property you own. Most states allow any competent adult to serve as executor, including the attorney who drafted your will, though some states restrict people with felony convictions or those who live out of state.

It behooves the heirless to consider estate planning to better allocate funds toward people or causes they care about, such as friends, coworkers, or charities. For example:

• Animal shelter or humane society
• Local church or other religious institution
• The public library
• The Public Broadcasting Service (PBS)
• A local land trust, the World Wildlife Fund or other conservation organizations
• A favorite city institution, such as a museum, zoo, symphony, ballet or theater
• Scholarship fund for your alma mater – K-12 or university
• YMCA or Jewish community center
• Medical institutions, such as local clinics, St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital, Planned Parenthood, cancer or other disease research
• Charities for children, such as the National Center for Missing & Exploited Children or Children’s Health Fund

If nothing local appeals, browse options at websites such as CharityWatch.org, a website dedicated to assessing how efficiently charities use donations.

Note that retirement accounts and life insurance policies generally request a beneficiary, and many bank and brokerage accounts allow one. You may not even remember that when you opened an account years ago, you listed your boyfriend or wife at the time as your beneficiary, even though that person is now your ex. Be aware that these beneficiary designations supersede any will instructions. These assets pass directly to the named beneficiary outside of probate, without going through your executor. Be sure to check and confirm your beneficiary designations while you are still alive to eliminate this issue. Many states automatically revoke an ex-spouse’s designation after a divorce, but that rule generally does not apply to employer retirement plans such as 401(k)s, so an ex could still collect. If no beneficiary is named, the account typically becomes part of your estate and goes through probate.

Charitable Donations

For people with substantial assets who want to leave money to one or more charities, sophisticated philanthropic vehicles include:

• Charitable remainder trust – The money is deposited into a trust while you are still alive. You receive an immediate tax deduction based on the present value of the charity’s future share (the remainder interest) of this irrevocable trust, as well as an income stream from the trust for life or for a set term of up to 20 years. When the trust ends, whatever charity you designate receives the remaining assets.
• Donor-advised funds – You make an irrevocable, tax-deductible contribution of cash, securities, or appreciated noncash assets to a fund, which is professionally managed for future growth. You may recommend money be granted to a qualified 501(c)(3) charity over time, basically leaving a legacy that continues to give.
• Private foundations – You can actually start your own charitable organization with an initial tax-deductible gift and appoint a board of directors or trustees (who may receive reasonable compensation) to manage and distribute assets according to your wishes. Foundations can make grants beyond public charities in limited cases, but only under strict IRS rules. They must also distribute at least 5 percent of their assets each year and pay an excise tax on investment income, and donors face lower deduction limits than for gifts to public charities.

It is best to consult with a financial advisor, tax professional, or estate planning attorney with experience in setting up a sophisticated charitable giving plan to make the most of your contributions.

No matter how well you know someone, you usually learn a lot more once you’ve traveled with them. We are all different in this activity, from people who prefer aisle seats over window seats, to Airbnb renters or hotel enthusiasts, to the outdoorsy versus museum aficionados.

Friendship compatibility does not always translate to travel compatibility. Therefore, before you load up the car or board public transportation, it will help to communicate preferences, establish a few ground rules, and, perhaps most importantly, decide how to share expenses.

There are plenty of advantages to traveling with another person or a group of people, even if you tend to be a loner. For example, sharing expenses for accommodations, a car rental, or even a bottle of wine over dinner can cut your vacation budget substantially. However, if you don’t have a plan for what expenses to share and how to track them, you may return home short-changed, resentful, and with one less person in your life.

Ground Rules

It’s important to gauge upfront if everyone is on the same page as to how much money they want to spend on the trip, and even establish a maximum budget so no one gets trapped into paying more than they can afford. This means determining the level of accommodations (e.g., luxury versus budget-friendly) to shop for, whether or not you want the option to cook meals as opposed to eating out all the time, and the main activities the group plans to engage in (e.g., free hiking versus expensive snow skiing). Establish what types of expenses will be shared, such as group meals, housing and car rental, and what will be paid for individually, such as airfare, solo outings and souvenirs.

Choose Your Tracking Method

There are two approaches for sharing the expenses of travel: Wing it or track it. Winging implies a more casual tactic. For example, one person picks up the hotel room tab, another pays for the rental car, another pays for meals. Perhaps you rotate or take turns picking up comparable bills. The goal is to generally spread expenses evenly across all payers, but winging it may lead to one (or more) travelers paying more while the other(s) pay less. If everyone agrees their outlays may differ, then this tactic will probably work just fine.

Tracking Tools

The second approach is to track all shared expenses with some degree of accuracy. This is easier if all expenses are shared evenly, but more complex if expenses need to be broken down into who ordered a salad and who ordered the filet mignon.

Fortunately, there is a plethora of electronic technologies and digital tools designed to make it easier to track travel expenses and ensure no one overpays – right down to the penny.

PayPal, Venmo, Zelle – These services make it easy to send or request money using apps. They may require travelers to keep receipts and calculate individual tabs, then settle up at the end of the day or the end of the trip. This tactic can be a little unwieldy, and may require manual tracking to ensure no one is paying too much or too little along the way. All travelers should sign up for at least one compatible money transfer app; they are generally free to use.

Splitwise – This app enables participants in a travel group to enter the expenses they paid by adding the names of the participants and breaking down the individual amounts each person contributed to each bill. The app tracks expenses by person, then tallies up who owes money at the end. Splitwise calculates who owes whom. Travelers can then settle balances using their preferred payment method, such as PayPal, Venmo, Zelle, bank transfer, cash, or another supported payment service. Splitwise is just one brand name of many apps that work similarly, including Tricount and Revolut.

Cino – This app works a bit differently in that each traveler links it to their personal credit or debit card, and the group Cino card is loaded into Apple Pay or Google Pay. Then all participants share a virtual card to pay for expenses, which divides each payment at the point of purchase among the participants for that expense. When one person pays for an expense, everyone’s share is automatically charged to each member’s connected credit or debit account. Note that Cino does not break down invoices by line item to track exactly who ate what; it follows a split ratio (e.g., 50%-50%) as determined up front by the group.

Artificial Intelligence – Travelers may want to give AI a try, where as they start with a prompt asking the service to track and split group expenses, then enter the names of participants and related expenses to the prompt on an ongoing basis. AI tools can organize, categorize, and calculate shared expenses that users enter manually. Some AI assistants may also summarize spending trends or generate settlement calculations, but they generally do not automatically track purchases unless integrated with financial apps.

Given today’s higher prices, group travel is becoming more prevalent as a way to share the cost of vacation. According to a 2025 Zeta Global survey, 40 percent of travelers are going on trips with family while 21 percent opt to vacation with friends. Today’s new digital tools make it easy to track and share expenses so that you don’t strain relationships with travel companions.